Stories

Selected writing, conversations, and public witness connected to the work of Common Sanctuary

Talks and Public Witness

Teaching and public witness rooted in lived experience, contemplative faith, and the courage to tell the truth.

Conversations

Conversations with queer voices at the intersection of faith, identity, and lived experience, marked by curiosity, respect, and depth.

Writings

Essays and reflections on faith, belonging, embodiment, and the sacred work of becoming whole.

Talks and Public Witness

Choosing Gratitude and Hope (TEDx Talk)

A shared reflection on mixed-orientation marriage, honesty, and the possibility of holding gratitude and hope together.

The Lord Is Near workshop for Q Christian Fellowship

A teaching on contemplative practice and presence, offered within a queer-affirming spiritual framework.

Novato Pride Flag Raising

Brief public remarks on visibility, courage, and the importance of queer presence in civic life.

Conversations

Becoming Wilkinson video interview

A wide-ranging conversation about growing up fundamentalist, mixed-orientation marriage, coming out later in life, and reclaiming faith with integrity.

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Found Family podcast conversation

A discussion of contemplative spirituality and its healing potential for queer people seeking belonging and depth.

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In the Margins conversation with Shannon T.L. Kearns

A dialogue on trans identity, scripture, and faith, rooted in shared history and mutual respect.

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Writings

I’m So Proud of You

A pastoral reflection on queer longing for parental acceptance and the power of being truly seen.

Originally published on March 15, 2025

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Queer Enough, In or Out of the Closet

An exploration of coming out, safety, and the dignity of queer lives lived in complexity.

Originally published on October 11, 2022

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Meeting God in a Gay Spa

A personal reflection on embodiment, healing, and encountering God in unexpected places.

Originally published on February 20, 2021

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Be Free, Siblings

A theological reflection on spiritual fruit, freedom, and the lived faith of queer Christians.

Originally published on January 10, 2022

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